I have to say that personally I believe you have a good discussion when it is on the verge of collapsing into a debate. We definitely had that this week when we were talking about gender and sex. I learned a lot from our class experience including the fact that sex and gender are not synonymous of one another. One defines who you are biologically and the other can define who you are mentally. Yet ultimately the two words are still used to try and capture a person's identity.
A person's identity is in my opinion one of his or her most valuable possessions. I used to think your physical state and mental state would always correlate perfectly. Meaning that if you were a boy you would think like a boy and if you were a girl you would think like a girl. Just to get one thing out of the way I always knew there were gay, lesbian, and bisexual youths but I contributed that to what your sexual preference is; not to how you think. Now, other than that our class discussion brought up some interesting points on how you can be a boy with a girl-brain or a girl with a boy-brain. Or even better you can be a person who can access both types of brains. In my opinion that is pretty darn cool because it enables you to become a more critical and diverse thinker.
Being a high schooler I know that too often people shelter who they are and hide their real "identity". For instance, Mr. Allen's talk to us about the native american author/speaker got my thinking about how I like a lot of "gay" things. I do not mean to use the term so crudely but in fact I do like a lot of girly things such as poetry. Yet just because I think with my girl-brain that does not mean that I am any less of a guy than someone else. Now as I go back to my original thought I wonder what terms define a person's identity.
Up until after our discussion I always identified myself as a boy but now I feel that it is not that simple. If it is true that I have traits of a girl and think like a girl shouldn't my identity reflect part of that? Or is my identity merely me sex? To help myself I looked up identity and got, " the condition or character as to who a person or what a thing is". Honestly this did not help me very much. However, in the end based off our discussion in class as well as my own personal pondering I have reached a conclusion. A person's identity should be, in my opinion, a culmination of both their sex and gender, as both of these play an immensely important role.